Do you have your change list? Did you manage not to sensor what you wrote? Have you looked at it since you made it last month? If so, when you looked at it again, did you make changes to it (or want to)? If you haven’t had a chance to do the second step (or the first step for that matter!) in the process of having the life you want, revisit the previous blogs to get caught up to this point (starting with...
For those of you who are new to this blog, you have joined part three (starting November 2009) in a series focused on going beyond the search for work/life balance and onto having the life you want—guilt-free. In the first step I asked you to prioritize what is important to you and encouraged journaling to help clarify the values underlying your priorities. Once you determine what is most important by clarifying...
Once I gave up the hunt for balance, realizing this to be a futile search since I could never quite “achieve it” and it kept me on the “feeling bad about myself” treadmill, I began to appreciate that there was something much more valuable available to me: the life I want—guilt-free.
I write these words almost covertly, tempted to look over my shoulder, as if someone might hear me and begin to refute this...
How often do you find yourself questioning how you spend your time? “I should be spending more time with the kids.” “I haven’t talked with my sister in two weeks, when will I have more than a few minutes to really sit down and talk with her?” “Can I get a walk in at lunch or should I run to the store for groceries for dinner tonight?” “If only I could spend more time on such and such a project at...
